I cancelled my gym membership and felt relieved.
The first reason why I decided to cancel my gym membership is because I don’t use it anymore. I thought joining a gym closer to home would be convenient, but it wasn’t. I became one of those people I used to talk shit about – paying monthly and not showing up. I decided to stop wasting money and put hundreds back in my pocket.
The second reason why I cancelled is because I don’t weightlift as heavy as I used to. This was the purpose of my gym membership; to play with all the hammer strength machines, barbells and dumbbells until I abused and depleted myself. Now, I can’t step into the gym without lifting heavy. I can no longer control myself, so I don’t go.
I have developed too many muscle imbalances and there are parts of my body that are asymmetrical (according to me). Aside from my muscles who enjoy living their life in a state of contraction, they’re holding onto emotional and physical trauma. The tension I carry must be release from within.
Every time I lift weights, my nags escalate until it’s full-blown inflammation. It affects me in such a way where my body keeps instructing me to listen. Over the years, I have decreased the load, given cardio strength a try and included circuit training with lighter dumbbells/barbells only to go for heavier weights eventually. Therefore, continuing the hurt.
And, my body goals and nature has changed.
Nevertheless, I’ve been heeding the advice of my body.
And I’ve been listening in time to lead me to the third reason why I decided to cancel my gym membership. For the past few months, I’ve been seeing a physical therapist for pelvic floor dysfunction. This dysfunction coupled with my fibroid issue and stress incontinence has pretty much ruined a good part of my life that I’ll leave for another entry probably. Because of these newly found issues, it behooves me to learn how to be gentle with myself in every regard possible.
It’s quite interesting, over the course of the last few years, the theme of my life seems to be about being gentler to myself. My therapist has also helped me to solidify the idea of furthering my compassion for myself. I must be gentle in how I speak to myself, in how I respond to myself, in how I regulate my emotions, in how I treat myself, in how I exercise.
It all points to being gentler and I’m actually refreshed because of it.